if one's life is solely dependent on other people's comments or criticism,wouldn't life be sad and difficult.

that perspective differs from one to another.

is it wise for one's comment to sour another's long term friendship/relationship?

it is rather scary as it seems that how people can be rather judgemental on looks or behaviours on the surface.it is undeniable that looks and ettique that one holds leaves a deep impression in others,but it doesn't mean that one understands him/her well.

reality may sucks.but this is life.i cant be complaining all my life,that will be wasting my time.

when sadness kicks in,one tends to mourn.it is certainly alright.it is the matter of time how fast one picks up and starts running again.life with challenges is natural.